should people get married early?

The issue of getting married is very important to every person. These days most people have their own plan to get married later. Some people have planned to get married at age 30 and some of them planned to get married over 35 or 40. People think that without getting married they can be more independent and have more free time. Also, they believe that being single can help them to get higher education. Some people think that singles are financially better than married people. As well as they think that getting married early is the main cause of divorce. Therefore, most people do not like to get married early. However, getting married early does not lead a person to be restricted. It is better for people to protect their chastity by getting married. Many people are having sex just to enjoy themselves without thinking about the bad effects, and being married will save them from diseases such as AIDS. Getting married early helps people to stay healthy and live peacefully. If people don't get married early, they may resort to had sex with a strange girl who affected by AIDS. Also, these days’ teenagers are eager to experience sexual intercourse without marriage; so we need to let them be married and keep them away from diseases. At the same time it will give them responsibility and a conscience. The parents should encourage their children to get married in the future and regulate their activities and their time as to keep their minds off of the sexual passions. However, in the event they become unable to control themselves they should marry. Additionally, early marriage helps students to concentrate on their studies, and they will be mature in their thinking and responsible. When students are married, they will spend most of their time together in their home. Therefore, they can take care of each other and have more time to study. Early marriage keeps teenagers away from going to night clubs and wasting time. Also, it keeps them away from drinking alcohol every night in the bar. Early marriage makes students concentrate on their studies and their future. Furthermore, if a person gets married at age 35, his children will feel that their father is very old and his thinking is different. Consequently, there is a big gap between their ages. Besides, marriage doesn’t cause a financial trouble. Many people spend lots of money in night clubs dancing with girls without a benefit. Some have spent all their salary before the month is ended. On the other hand getting married can help a person to spend his/ her money in the right way. Spouses can help each other to improve their finances. Moreover, early marriage doesn’t lead to divorce. When partners treat each other beautifully and properly, they never get divorced. They should understand that divorce leads to break the woman’s heart, and possibly separates the woman from her children. The spouses should avoid divorce as much as possible. If they have difficulties and problems they should try to work out their differences and seek help from their relatives, friends or professional counselors. Also, a husband should be patient with his wife if he sees something in her that he disapproves of or dislikes. He should also recognize that he is dealing with a human being with natural imperfections, and he should balance her good qualities with her failings. To avoid divorce, the husband should be tolerant and patient with what he dislikes in his wife. To conclude, early marriage helps people to be healthy and success in their studies. Also, it gives teenagers responsibility and a conscience. Therefore, we should get married before we get older.